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         <title>Full Insanity Workout Free Download - Best Way To Lose Weight At Home For Men</title>
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         <title>Good Vibrations: U.S. Consumer Web Site Aims to Enhance Sex Toy Safety: Scientific American</title>
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         <title>Virginia school district ponders banning cross-gender dress | Reuters</title>
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         <description>Showcasing how ignorance is a life-threatening, clear and present danger, a &amp;#34;Virginia school district is considering banning cross-gender dressing in a move proponents said aims to protect students from harassment,&amp;#34; Matthew Ward reports. The ban is being considered &amp;#34;after teachers [&amp;#8230;] said some male students were dressing like girls, prompting complaints from other students.&amp;#34; Although [...]</description>
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         <pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2012 22:20:48 +0000</pubDate>
         <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Showcasing how ignorance is a life-threatening, clear and present danger, a &quot;Virginia school district is considering banning cross-<a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.scarleteen.com/glossary/term/3320" class="sspg term" title="Look up this term.">gender</a> dressing in a move proponents said aims to protect students from harassment,&quot; Matthew Ward reports. The ban is being considered &quot;after teachers [&hellip;] said some male students were dressing like girls, prompting complaints from other students.&quot;</p>
<p>Although <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://kinkontap.com/?p=1302">wanting to protect youth from harm</a> is noble, <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://vimeo.com/7783159">misguided bans on expression are functionally equivalent to censorship, and serve no protective purpose</a>. Worse, ignorance of <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.scarleteen.com/glossary/term/3320" class="sspg term" title="Look up this term.">gender</a> diversity &quot;could actually make the students more susceptible to bullying,&quot; not less, according to the executive director of Equality Virginia, James Parrish. &quot;They&#039;re calling it cross-dressing, but <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://kinkontap.com/?p=1644">if [one wears] clothes that reflect their gender identity [then] that&#039;s appropriate gender dressing</a>,&quot; he said.</p>
<p class="kot-brief-source"><a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.reuters.com/article/2012/02/11/us-virginia-clothing-gender-idUSTRE81A0P720120211">Read brief source&hellip;</a>[kot-contrib]. (Thanks, <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.delicious.com/url/d4bab9f34a63d740368ddcb1cdfdc27c#maymay">maymay</a>!)[/kot-contrib]</p>
<p><strong>Update:</strong> A grass-roots <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/Virginia-Dont-Ban-Cross-Gender-Dress/">petition to oppose the ban</a> has been <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://minervaholmes.tumblr.com/post/17715812481/eldritchjoy-lord-kitschener">circulating on Tumblr</a>. A vote is expected in March. Hopefully, the petition along with the threat of legal action from the ACLU of Virginia will be enough to deter this dangerous violation of student&#8217;s freedom of expression.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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         <description>maymaym: #BDSM Scene is sexist, classist, racist &amp;if http://t.co/4VN0fUBb surprises you, so are you.SA http://t.co/twfiR8Ho /via http://t.co/fbDvKI4N</description>
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         <title>maymaym: Study: male #circumcision leads to #sex life problems, a need for &quot;rough&quot; sex to orgasm: http://t.co/dTT4uzem SA http://t.co/8yICfoLq</title>
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         <description>maymaym: Study: male #circumcision leads to #sex life problems, a need for &quot;rough&quot; sex to orgasm: http://t.co/dTT4uzem SA http://t.co/8yICfoLq</description>
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         <title>maymaym: #Google donates $11.5M to pro-censorship/anti-sex work frauds: http://t.co/g2kNtFYZ http://t.co/wSSWXG2X SA http://t.co/Helnxzd1 /via @PLRI</title>
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         <description>maymaym: #Google donates $11.5M to pro-censorship/anti-sex work frauds: http://t.co/g2kNtFYZ http://t.co/wSSWXG2X SA http://t.co/Helnxzd1 /via @PLRI</description>
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         <title>maymaym: Another of Bagley's accomplices plead guilty in #sex slave case http://t.co/l6EqgP3E SA http://t.co/HkboUglk /via http://t.co/rS8e0qwg #BDSM</title>
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         <description>maymaym: Another of Bagley's accomplices plead guilty in #sex slave case http://t.co/l6EqgP3E SA http://t.co/HkboUglk /via http://t.co/rS8e0qwg #BDSM</description>
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         <title>maymaym: Media uses &quot;gender identity&quot; concern to headline @SaveBradley case: http://t.co/F1QOm6vl In depth: http://t.co/SL7IIBdD http://t.co/qaRUu8rf</title>
         <link>http://twitter.com/maymaym/statuses/148554843538202624</link>
         <description>maymaym: Media uses &quot;gender identity&quot; concern to headline @SaveBradley case: http://t.co/F1QOm6vl In depth: http://t.co/SL7IIBdD http://t.co/qaRUu8rf</description>
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         <title>maymaym: Dec 17=International Day to End Violence Against #Sex Workers—notably violence committed by #police: http://t.co/2ylYp5tp /via @LauraAgustin</title>
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         <description>maymaym: Dec 17=International Day to End Violence Against #Sex Workers—notably violence committed by #police: http://t.co/2ylYp5tp /via @LauraAgustin</description>
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         <title>maymaym: #Norway: A coalition of psychologists asks WHO to declassify fetishism, #BDSM as diseases in ICD: http://t.co/VZ6RNikN #GLBT</title>
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         <description>maymaym: #Norway: A coalition of psychologists asks WHO to declassify fetishism, #BDSM as diseases in ICD: http://t.co/VZ6RNikN #GLBT</description>
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         <title>maymaym: IRS filings show ⅔ of @NOMTweets' $ comes from 2 bigots: http://t.co/FVavr1aP /via @FritterFae http://t.co/ZVou83Cb cc @pledgemistress #GLBT</title>
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         <description>maymaym: IRS filings show ⅔ of @NOMTweets' $ comes from 2 bigots: http://t.co/FVavr1aP /via @FritterFae http://t.co/ZVou83Cb cc @pledgemistress #GLBT</description>
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         <title>maymaym: Homophobic Tea Party Mayor opposes &quot;the rights of American citizens to just plain love each other&quot; http://t.co/furWMdoW /via @TheMaiLi #GLBT</title>
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         <description>maymaym: Homophobic Tea Party Mayor opposes &quot;the rights of American citizens to just plain love each other&quot; http://t.co/furWMdoW /via @TheMaiLi #GLBT</description>
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         <title>maymaym: &quot;Muggers With Fake Gun Thwarted by Polyamorous Inwood Family&quot; http://t.co/2PdQkOpO Best. Headline. Ever! Better? That's my stomping grounds.</title>
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         <description>maymaym: &quot;Muggers With Fake Gun Thwarted by Polyamorous Inwood Family&quot; http://t.co/2PdQkOpO Best. Headline. Ever! Better? That's my stomping grounds.</description>
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         <title>maymaym: 2 dads AND a mom? http://t.co/7XZvTAMT While #polyamory's a lovely #family value, positioning it as answer to divorce is not. /via @TheMaiLi</title>
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         <description>maymaym: 2 dads AND a mom? http://t.co/7XZvTAMT While #polyamory's a lovely #family value, positioning it as answer to divorce is not. /via @TheMaiLi</description>
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         <description>maymaym: #GLBT #youth get married at Zuccotti Park after police raid: http://t.co/mLemeDa0 D'aw. But still, fuck #marriage: http://t.co/GuDODbFW #OWS</description>
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         <title>maymaym: &quot;Occupy My Throat&quot; features &quot;two hippie-ish twinks [who] suck each other off in a tent&quot; at #OO: http://t.co/VKP3ypXu O…kay. #OWS #porn #GLBT</title>
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         <description>maymaym: &quot;Occupy My Throat&quot; features &quot;two hippie-ish twinks [who] suck each other off in a tent&quot; at #OO: http://t.co/VKP3ypXu O…kay. #OWS #porn #GLBT</description>
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         <description>maymaym: New study queers notions of #objectification, sees effects across #gender: http://t.co/adGPhjOp SA http://t.co/wxj17auA http://t.co/VwReVMVo</description>
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         <title>charlieglickman: Comprehensive Sex Education Bill Introduced in House and Senate http://t.co/sT5Rnjft</title>
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         <description>charlieglickman: Comprehensive Sex Education Bill Introduced in House and Senate http://t.co/sT5Rnjft</description>
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         <title>SexDayUSA: Google TV gets its first porn channel http://t.co/GPuBQmJj</title>
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         <description>SexDayUSA: Google TV gets its first porn channel http://t.co/GPuBQmJj</description>
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         <title>maymaym: In Roman Catholic #Poland, 1st #trans woman &amp; #gay man take seats in newly elected parliament to &quot;warm greetings&quot; http://t.co/hXyK0Ts4 #GLBT</title>
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         <description>maymaym: In Roman Catholic #Poland, 1st #trans woman &amp; #gay man take seats in newly elected parliament to &quot;warm greetings&quot; http://t.co/hXyK0Ts4 #GLBT</description>
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         <title>robynochs: Bisexual HS student assaulted, stands up to bullying in Essex, VT http://t.co/40DlbpYT</title>
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         <description>robynochs: Bisexual HS student assaulted, stands up to bullying in Essex, VT http://t.co/40DlbpYT</description>
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         <title>vniow: Couple takes nude photos inside the carcass of their horse. You can't make this shit up. http://t.co/g2Nw8H8H</title>
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         <description>vniow: Couple takes nude photos inside the carcass of their horse. You can't make this shit up. http://t.co/g2Nw8H8H</description>
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         <title>studentactivism: Via @allisonkilkenny, Zuccotti feminists point out that #OWS has a better record on sexual assault than the NYPD. http://t.co/5yn79TO0</title>
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         <description>studentactivism: Via @allisonkilkenny, Zuccotti feminists point out that #OWS has a better record on sexual assault than the NYPD. http://t.co/5yn79TO0</description>
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         <description>A lesbian high school couple in San Diego was crowned Homecoming king and queen before a cheering crowd of their peers Friday night. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Rebeca Arellano also made history as Patrick Henry High School's first female homecoming king. Her girlfriend Haileigh Adams won the title of homecoming queen. The pair have been dating since February of their sophomore year. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&quot;They were chanting my name and it was one of the most amazing experiences I've ever had,&quot; the high school senior told &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.10news.com/news/29616851/detail.html&quot; title=&quot; KGTV News. &quot;&gt; KGTV News. &lt;br&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;Though there has been some negative feedback, and hurt feelings of male students who were bypassed as Homecoming king this year, Adams and Arellano said they've received mostly support from their classmates and teachers. One teacher, according to &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://abcnews.go.com/US/high-school-students-crowned-americas-lesbian-homecoming-couple/story?id=14844909&quot; title=&quot;ABC News,&quot;&gt;ABC News,&lt;/a&gt; told Arellano, &quot;Today, school is a bit better because of you girls.&quot; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Adams said, &quot;The fact that other people are feeling more confident about themselves or feeling like they might have a chance at doing this, it's opening doors.&quot;</description>
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         <description>&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; id=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;&quot;&gt;&lt;img class=&quot;img&quot; src=&quot;http://platform.ak.fbcdn.net/www/app_full_proxy.php?app=232775914688&amp;amp;v=1&amp;amp;size=z&amp;amp;cksum=95f8b1d3bb423ad094d2c54f915e6b64&amp;amp;src=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.wausaudailyherald.com%2Fodygci%2Fp2%2FicnSlider_open.png&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; id=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;&quot;&gt;#Wisconsin State Sen. Pam Galloway pushes abstinence-only bill for #SexEd classes. Hey, Galloway, WHERE ARE THE #JOBS?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;www.wausaudailyherald.com&lt;br/&gt;Wisconsin school districts offering sex education courses won't be required to teach about birth control if a bill co-sponsored by a Republican Wausau lawmaker is approved. The legislation, introduced by New Berlin Republican state Sen. Mary Lazich and supported by state Sen. Pam Galloway, would...</description>
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         <description>&lt;p&gt;Wisconsin school districts offering sex education courses won't be required to teach about birth control if a bill co-sponsored by a Republican Wausau lawmaker is approved.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;The legislation, introduced by New Berlin Republican state Sen. Mary Lazich and supported by state Sen. Pam Galloway, would roll back an existing state law that prohibits school districts from teaching abstinence-only sex education programs.&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;That legislation, passed last year as the Healthy Youth Act, has been credited by advocates with reducing teen pregnancy rates and the spread of sexually transmitted diseases.&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Galloway said the new bill is intended to give control over curriculum back to local school boards.&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&quot;The Healthy Youth Act was a one-size-fits-all approach,&quot; Galloway said.&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;The new bill requires districts that opt to provide sex education to present abstinence as the only sure way to prevent pregnancy or STDs. Schools could opt to provide information about birth control.&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Opponents of the bill packed a committee hearing in Madison Wednesday, arguing that the measure would increase teen pregnancy and disease rates.&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;The proposal would require school districts that maintain a sex education curriculum to teach abstinence as the preferred choice for unmarried students, provide instruction in parental responsibility and the socioeconomic benefits of marriage and explain pregnancy, prenatal development and childbirth.&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;School districts also would no longer be required to notify parents if a human development course will not be offered. Volunteer health care providers -- doctors, nurses and other specialists -- also wouldn't be permitted to teach human development courses.&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;The issue inspired an often emotional debate in the Merrill Area School District last year. The district's school board eventually approved a human growth and development curriculum including information about birth control and allowed objecting parents to pull their children from the class.&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Merrill School Board President Bill Jaeger said he didn't know the details of Lazich's proposal but said the district's committee on human growth and development plans to review the curriculum each year. He said a change in state law wouldn't necessarily re-ignite the debate, particularly if the number of students opting out remains low. Jaeger said he believed fewer than 10 students opted out last year.&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&quot;I think the curriculum has gone quite smoothly,&quot; Jaeger said. &quot;After what we went through with last year's debate, I'm not sure that we'd look to do it again.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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         <description>&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; id=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;&quot;&gt;&lt;img class=&quot;img&quot; src=&quot;http://platform.ak.fbcdn.net/www/app_full_proxy.php?app=232775914688&amp;amp;v=1&amp;amp;size=z&amp;amp;cksum=d7b4b5c94b4a5bffabe62e19a82692b5&amp;amp;src=http%3A%2F%2Fi.huffpost.com%2Fgen%2F386577%2Fthumbs%2Fs-NOM-PHOTOSHOP-GAY-MARRIAGE-small.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; id=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;&quot;&gt;National Organization For Marriage (&amp;#064;NOMTweets) Uses Photoshop To Create Doctored Photos Showing Support For Repealing New Hampshire Gay #Marriage&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;www.huffingtonpost.com&lt;br/&gt;The National Organization For Marriage (NOM) is an anti-gay group that has gone to great lengths in hopes of ensuring that marriage remains between one man and one woman. Lately its members have turned their attention to New Hampshire, where Republican lawmakers are working to repeal the 15-month...</description>
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         <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.nationformarriage.org/site/c.omL2KeN0LzH/b.3836955/k.BEC6/Home.htm&quot;&gt;The National Organization For Marriage&lt;/a&gt; (NOM) is an anti-gay group that has gone to great lengths in hopes of ensuring that marriage remains between one man and one woman.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Lately its members have turned their attention to New Hampshire, where &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.boston.com/news/local/new_hampshire/articles/2011/10/25/nh_panel_to_vote_on_gay_marriage_repeal_bill/&quot;&gt;Republican lawmakers are working to repeal&lt;/a&gt; the 15-month old gay marriage law passed by the state's Legislature. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Though polls show that the citizens of New Hampshire are against the repeal by &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.wmur.com/r/29476349/detail.html&quot;&gt;a 2-1 margin&lt;/a&gt; and Governor John Lynch says he'll veto the bill if it comes to his desk, NOM is toiling away trying to make people believe that the majority of the people in the state support the repeal.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;How are they doing this? With the magic of Photoshop.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;As the blog &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.goodasyou.org/&quot;&gt;Good As You&lt;/a&gt; and Rachel Maddow pointed out yesterday, NOM has taken (at least) two photos of rallies held for now-President Obama and repurposed them to make it look like thousands of people are attending their anti-marriage events.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.goodasyou.org/good_as_you/2011/10/photo-a-mutant-strain-of-nom-misrepresentation.html#jsid-1319555228-979&quot;&gt;The first photo&lt;/a&gt;, featured on the NOM website, was taken from an Obama rally held in St. Louis in 2008. The second photo, &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.goodasyou.org/good_as_you/2011/10/photo-a-mutant-strain-of-nom-misrepresentation-part-2.html&quot;&gt;Good As You notes,&lt;/a&gt; was used to make NOM President Brian Brown's speech look well attended but is actually from a rally where 60,000 people came out to see Obama in Columbus, Ohio, in 2008.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;As Rachel Maddow said in the clip above, &quot;Caught you!&quot;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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         <description>&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; id=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;&quot;&gt;&lt;img class=&quot;img&quot; src=&quot;http://platform.ak.fbcdn.net/www/app_full_proxy.php?app=232775914688&amp;amp;v=1&amp;amp;size=z&amp;amp;cksum=f4146ac767f36470c80fa3bae74fadf0&amp;amp;src=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.observer.com%2Ffiles%2F2011%2F10%2Foccupypoetry-150x150.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot;/&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; id=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;&quot;&gt;#OccupyWallStreet &amp;amp; the #Poetry of Now-Time: &amp;amp;quot;He…didn’t seem very much like a sadist at all.&amp;amp;quot; A BDSM&amp;#039;er&amp;#039;s take on #OWS:&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;www.observer.com&lt;br/&gt;If you really want to understand Occupy Wall Street, you have to talk to the poets. One night last week, late, after ducking out of a birthday party, we wandered down Broadway like we sometimes do now, looking to extend the evening a bit, see what was doing in the park. Zuccotti was quiet, but...</description>
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         <description>&lt;p&gt;If you really want to understand Occupy Wall Street, you have to talk to the poets.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;One night last week, late, after ducking out of a birthday party, we wandered down Broadway like we sometimes do now, looking to extend the evening a bit, see what was doing in the park.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Zuccotti was quiet, but charged with energy as it had been for a month and counting. Many of the sleeping bags were already lumpy and zipped tight. Some were moving gently. The library was closed, covered with blue tarps. But two of the librarians, who were also the poets, were still kicking it. They met three weeks ago and are now best friends, they agreed.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;These were Stephen Boyer, 27, a former model and paid dominatrix, and Filip Marinovich, 36, a sometime associate professor of poetry.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Not that any of that really matters anymore. “Hierarchies are bullshit,” Mr. Boyer said. In the last three weeks, he had met celebrities, philosophers, politicians—then curled up under a table to await the next unknowable day. “I’m in the most uncomfortable situation I’ve ever been in in my life, and I have more access to the world than ever.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Sometimes things are their opposites. Mr. Boyer learned this doing his other job, tag-teaming with his girlfriend, dominating people for money. This is physical work, no getting around that, but it’s also psychological. Mostly it’s about power and how to flip it. Good training, actually, for a member of a revolutionary movement.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mr. Boyer and his girlfriend moved back to the states from London just a few weeks ago, and they were staying in a hotel overlooking ground zero, preparing for a trip to DC, a business trip. Lots of clients down there—all the doms know it’s the best place in the country to beat people and humiliate them and maybe fuck them with a strap-on for money.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;When he reunited with his New York friends, they were going on and on about Occupy Wall Street. “I was like, ‘Let’s get a fucking drink. I haven’t seen you in forever.’ Like, whatever. I’ve been to a zillion protests. I really expected nothing.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The next day, though, he wandered over to Zuccotti Park. After walking around for five minutes, he recalled, “I just started crying. I was like, This is not like anything I’ve ever seen. It’s what we’ve always wanted to be happening but never figured out how to do.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mr. Marinovich agreed. “I gave up on this a long time ago, and yet here it is,” he said.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;+++&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Of course we asked them about what everyone outside this movement—especially members of the media—seems want to talk about, and nobody on the inside is particularly concerned with: &lt;em&gt;What do you all want? What are the demands? How do you know when you’ve won and can go home?&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The poets were polite. They tried to answer. They were tired, as everyone is down there. Running on pure adrenaline. But these were the wrong questions, the ones you ask when you don’t yet get it. These were the questions of the world outside the park—the world of prose. Occupy Wall Street is actually, it turns out, occurring in the realm of poetry and spirit. It’s a sort of waking dream. Which is why it’s so strangely powerful and cannot be sneered away or shoveled over with cynicism (&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.observer.com/2011/09/the-wall-street-protesters-what-the-hell-do-they-want/&quot;&gt;not that we didn’t try&lt;/a&gt;) or kettled into history, and may even survive the winter in New York.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“Demands will grow,” Mr. Boyer assured us calmly, with a patience we immediately envied, as we had not felt patient like that in a very long time. He was tall and young, and wore mostly black and didn’t seem very much like a sadist at all. “Demands will eventually come. But this is a space for learning. I’ve learned more here in the last two weeks than I have in all those years of college.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That’s not a dig on the University of San Francisco, where Mr. Boyer majored in creative writing and sociology. The degree didn’t get him far, though, so he has done what he had to do for money, some good, some not so good. He walked the runway last year in London for Ziad Ghanem, for instance, the designer widely viewed as the creative heir to Alexander McQueen. Mr. Ghanem placed volumes of Mr. Boyer’s poetry on every seat in the front row, and Mr. Boyer’s picture turned up in &lt;em&gt;British Vogue.&lt;/em&gt; That was the good job.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But it seems like a different life now. He no longer knows the person in those pictures.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In his 1985 cult anarchist treatise &lt;em&gt;&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://hermetic.com/bey/taz1.html#labelChaosSection&quot;&gt;T.A.Z.&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;/em&gt;Hakim Bey, aka the poet Peter Lamborn Wilson, described what he dubbed the temporary autonomous zone: “a guerrila operation which liberates an area (of land, of time, of imagination).” Which is as good a description of Occupy Wall Street as any.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;div style=&quot;width:410px;&quot;&gt;&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.observer.com/files/2011/10/occupypoetry.jpg&quot;&gt;&lt;img title=&quot;occupypoetry&quot; src=&quot;http://www.observer.com/files/2011/10/occupypoetry.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; width=&quot;400&quot; height=&quot;266&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;The library. (Flickr/hukdunshur)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Such zones have flourished, however briefly, around the world, often in secret, Mr. Bey wrote, but in in contemporary America he thought such a space would most likely emerge after three conditions were met. First, people needed to understand not only how the State (Wall Street, the One Percent, whatever) had enslaved them but also “the ways in which we are ensnared in a fantasy in which &lt;em&gt;ideas&lt;/em&gt; oppress us.” When the Slovenian philosopher Slavoj Žižek showed up in the park a few weeks back, he compared this process of awakening to the John Carpenter movie &lt;em&gt;They Live, &lt;/em&gt;in which the protagonist, Nada, &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Lwlx3GnLGs&quot;&gt;finds a pair of special sunglasses&lt;/a&gt; which reveal that  the advertising billboards all around him carry hidden messages: &lt;em&gt;submit, stay asleep, conform, consume.&lt;/em&gt; The dollar bill? &lt;em&gt;This is your god.&lt;/em&gt; (And spoiler alert: the rich are all aliens.)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The second condition was that the internet would need to evolve into a useful tool of dissent and organization.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And third, Mr. Bey wrote, “The State must progress on its present course in which hysterical rigidity comes more and more to mask a vacuity, an abyss of power.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Check, check, check.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;+++&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It was windy. The blue tarps were whipping around. Mr. Boyer was asked another of those questions a reporter might ask, an &lt;em&gt;outside-the-zone&lt;/em&gt; question. We were just visiting, after all.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“Ever have any famous clients?”&lt;/p&gt;
                                  &lt;p&gt;“I’ve had powerful clients. I’ve also had a lot of middle-class clients and a lot who just lost their jobs and don’t know what to do and are freaking out and they want fetish relief from all the pain. I’m like, ‘Sorry, I didn’t want to take your money, but that’s what it’s about.’”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“Political people?”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“&lt;em&gt;So&lt;/em&gt; many times.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“People you recognized?”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“Sure. I’m not going to give you names. But like, I’ve had clients before who are very close to Donald Rumsfeld and Dick Cheney, for instance. And I’m just like, ‘Really? Really? You hang out with them every day?’”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mr. Boyer suggested his girlfriend come to Zuccotti. She said no. Her room was overlooking the reconstruction of  the World Trade Center site, and at one point, Mr. Boyer stood on the balcony, peering down at what felt to him like a graveyard. Then he turned back to watch her on the luxurious bed in the sleekly minimalist room. “She looked so isolated. And I was like, ‘You sure you don’t want to come to Occupy Wall Street?’” No thanks, she said.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“I think that division of psychic-ness is the main reason why we had to go our own ways.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It seems clear that the lack of demands is not the problem with this thing but its engine. We ask the usual questions because that is how we understand—or, not understand at all, really, but control and contain, and then dismiss or exploit, according to our individual agenda or cast of mind. Those of us standing outside the park—who could, at any moment, simply step across the threshold—want to flick it aside it or put it to use, because that’s what we have learned to do. Box it up, slap on a label, file it away.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Like Mr. Bey said, “As soon as the TAZ is named (represented, mediated), it must vanish, it will vanish, leaving behind an empty husk.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Which might be why everyone keeps asking.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;+++&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mr. Marinovich is married and has a place on the Lower East Side. He doesn’t sleep in the park but hangs out all the time. He has taught poetry at Columbia and the St. Marks Poetry Project. He had a wild beard, and soft eyes and was wearing a hooded wind-breaker.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;He compared Zuccotti Park to Sherwood Forest. “It’s the true &lt;em&gt;Akademia,&lt;/em&gt;” he said, referring to the original school founded by Plato in an Athenian grove of olive trees. He, too, struggled to remember the person he was before Occupy Wall Street. “There’s this huge clash and rift between everything that came before and now. It’s so full of danger and possibility and opportunity and ecstasy and everyone’s falling in love and everyone looks so beautiful and you just want to walk through and have sex with everyone.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Not that either poet had had any actual sex in the sacred grove. Another literal question we had to ask. Truth be told, we too were falling in love with this movement, but we remained affixed to the other zone, ever alert to the clickable headline.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Anyway, the point was not about sex, both poets agreed, laughing. “There’s a tremendous psychic eros going on here, this connection that we feel together,” Mr. Marinovich explained. “It creates this courage to stand up to whatever happens.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“The TAZ is an art of life in continual rising up, wild but gentle,” Mr. Bey wrote, inspired, to a large degree, by the great Sufi poets. It’s “a seducer not a rapist, a smuggler rather than a bloody pirate, a dancer not an eschatologist.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mr. Marinovich added that most interactions in the world outside are money-centered. Not in the park. They had no money, and yet they were well fed. Nobody mentioned Jesus, or the communities of early Christians, but you have to think those disciples had a brightness in their eyes that these poets would recognize. They, too, had crossed a threshold between then and now. The followers of Jesus had abandoned their families, had given up concerning themselves with money or anything practical, feeling certain the messiah was coming (to ask whether he did or not is to miss the point). They had loaves and fishes that fed a multitude. The occupiers have pizza—sometimes 300 pies a day—that somehow just arrives. They trust that they will be O.K., that fellowship will sustain them, and so far they are O.K.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mr. Marinovich marveled at the “immediate, urgent intimacy” he felt in the park, among the occupiers. “It’s completely natural and unforced,” he said, “and it has so much to do with the absence of money as a center, because when that’s not in the center, what is in the center we don’t know, and into that opening everything can flow.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;+++&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mr. Marinovich views Zuccotti Park as sacred space. Mr. Boyer’s description of ground zero as a “graveyard” seemed apt, he said. There was a reason, maybe subconscious, that they were occupying this place. Close to Wall Street, yes, but closer to where the towers fell.&lt;/p&gt;
                                  &lt;p&gt;“I’ve been thinking about this a lot,” he said. “The dead have been used for ten years as fuel for this war. I don’t think that’s anything they would have wanted. To hijack the spirits of the dead and use them to create this permanent state of war is one of the vilest things you could possibly do.” (One thought of Mr. Boyer’s clients, who might have been in that Pentagon basement when the decisions were made, plans drawn up. Or maybe that’s just what johns inside the Beltway always tell their young boy poet–dominatrixes.)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“I feel like this is the real tenth anniversary of 9-11,” Mr. Marinovich continued. “It’s weird what was leading up to this. The whole commemoration, but before that Hurricane Irene, which was like this cleansing thing. All that happened. And being here on the periphery of ground zero, so loaded with spirits….”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A year ago, he’d been walking around the area, and he’d felt that the spirits were walking with him. Telling him things. Which he wrote down in a poem that is now in the &lt;em&gt;Occupy Wall St. Poetry Anthology,&lt;/em&gt; which Mr. Boyer and Mr. Marinovich created together, out of contributions from people in the park and others who sent in work online and keep sending more, so much they can hardly read it all. Contributors include Anne Waldman, Adrienne Rich, Michael McLure, Elliott Katz, but anyone can contribute by sending their work to stephenjboyer@gmail.com, with “occupy poetry” in the subject line.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Two copies of the anthology, which are in binders so they can grow each day, are kept in the Occupy library and are not online. But you can borrow them—there is no checking out or checking in—or hear them at the &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://eoagh.com/?gab_gallery=video-filip-marinovich-and-the-human-microphone-at-occupy-wall-street&quot;&gt;weekly poetry assembly&lt;/a&gt;, every Friday at 9:30 p.m. Or you can just ask, like we did. Mr. Marinovich went first, reading the piece he’d written a year ago, when the spirits of the dead had whispered to him. “This is called ‘&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://eoagh.com/?p=710&amp;all=1&quot;&gt;Wolfman Librarian and the Trembling Pair of Actor Hands&lt;/a&gt;,’” he said, and noted that it was long. The beginning went something like this: “Tell me this grove will protect me / From World Trade Towers Lightning forking the brain / Mine! Mine! / Why are there trains under the grass / And my butt is wet / Why do you constantly interrupt yourself? / My rhythm is the rhythm of interruption.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mr. Boyer went next, with a poem he’d put down in a rush on one of his first giddy nights in Zuccotti Park. Again, an except: “We need a sex space in the park, a space surrounded by tarps, held by the people, so we can get naked and fill each other with ourselves,” he read. And a few lines later: “I want to moan as the bankers and men on Wall Street watch with their binoculars, and in this way we shall win. They’ll come, demanding our naked bodies, and we’ll share ourselves. Sasha Gray, where are you? Get down here and gang bang for democracy. And show them just how beautiful our bodies, and the way we glow when we make one another radiate.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;+++&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mr. Boyer used to suffer from anxiety. He used to do drugs, sometimes hard ones, and drink every day. In his three weeks in the park, spending hour after hour meeting people, talking about ideas, reciting poetry, he’s felt free of that. “There’s this hunger inside for the kind of community that I am now having access to,” he explained. “Since that wasn’t available to me, I’d partake of drugs to kind of numb that desire, because there was such a void in me. A lot of people are in the same mindspace.” He added, however, that some were actually using more, maybe because they’re so disoriented and exhausted. Who knows? It was hard to pin down exactly what was going on for the people who’d entered into this experiment.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Mr. Marinovich jumped in. “This is nonlinear time, saturated now-time,” he explained, “‘time shot through with the presence of the the now,’ as Benjamin called it.” We had to look that up. Now-time was a long time ago for us. The reference was to &lt;em&gt;&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.sfu.ca/~andrewf/CONCEPT2.html&quot;&gt;Theses on the Philosophy of History&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;/em&gt; which Walter Benjamin, the German-Jewish literary critic, wrote in January 1940, as the Nazis prepared to invade France. Eight months later, after fleeing to Spain, Benjamin learned that Franco had decided to return the refugees to Paris. He swallowed a handful of morphine pills.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Anyway, that was history. This was now-time. &lt;em&gt;Jetztzeit.&lt;/em&gt; The revolutionary moment, the messianic age, which might extend forever, or not that long, but was somehow ever-present.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It seemed inevitable somehow that in the eyes of the outside world, at least, that the Occupy Wall Street movement would eventually flame out. People would begin to bicker. Splinter groups would form. January would be colder than anyone imagined. It all seemed very fragile. But by a different measure, the occupiers had already won. Their lives felt meaningful, were meaningful, in a way they hadn’t been before, which is a treasure that does not trade on the stock exchange and that most of us, whatever our percentile, rarely get our greedy hands on.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“Look around,” Mr. Boyer said. “We just slept through three days of pouring rain and everyone is still smiling.”&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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         <title>&quot;Isn't He Lovely: Male #Bisexuality Doesn't Exist…Oh, Wait, It Does!&quot;, @CristenConger writes @BitchMedia.</title>
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         <description>&lt;p&gt;Designer Tom Ford once &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.details.com/style-advice/rules-of-style/200811/rules-of-style-from-designer-tom-ford&quot;&gt;told &lt;em&gt;Details&lt;/em&gt; magazine&lt;/a&gt;: “There’s one indulgence every man should try in his lifetime. If you’re straight, sleep with a man at least once, and if you’re gay, don’t go through life without sleeping with a woman.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Gucci's sartorial savant could—pardon the following phrase—&quot;get away with&quot; that—pardon the following adjective—&quot;edgy&quot; quote since he's an out gay man. Having already wandered away from the heteronormative fold, of course it's fine for him to explore both male and female physical contact. A straight guy saying that? Whoa, buddy, you've gotta be gay. Because male bisexuality doesn't exist, right? &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://flavorwire.com/101310/10-famous-male-bisexuals-who-arent-david-bowie&quot;&gt;Oh, wait&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That Ford quote popped up in &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2009/04/21/how-male-bisexuality-got-cool.html&quot;&gt;2009 Daily Beast column&lt;/a&gt; discussing how male bisexuality was so hot right then. Well, for starters, Ford wasn't explicitly advocating for bisexuality but open-minded &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/mostly-straight/&quot;&gt;heteroflexibility&lt;/a&gt;. Its interpretation as a bisexuality plug isn't all that surprising, however, since the cultural conclusions we draw about male-on-male sexual activity are far more black and white than those we make regarding females. If, say, Adam Levine had written &quot;I Kissed a Boy and I Liked It?&quot; do you think it would've been as well received as Ms. Perry's pop single? I think not.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That 2009 column argued that pop culture &quot;bromances&quot; were bringing male bisexuality into the mainstream, but that thesis was tenuous at best. The &quot;bro&quot; in &quot;bromance&quot; offered a linguistic cue that any &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcT26S0V8lmplGK7tyHPiF7VjtqpjgLdm6_bxYTsm6D2Dg7FFKTA&quot;&gt;guy pals labeled as such&lt;/a&gt; were merely platonic, not gettin' physical like Oliva Newton John. And not until earlier this year has scientific research dismantled the whole &quot;gay, straight, or lying&quot; sexual stereotype imposed on men.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Some brief background:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.nytimes.com/2005/07/05/health/05sex.html?pagewanted=all&quot;&gt;2005 study&lt;/a&gt; found that male participants exhibited distinctly diverging patterns in arousal when watching erotic movies involving only women or only men. In other words, the guys were either into the the guys or into the women on screen. No middle ground. Their conclusion in a nutshell? Male bisexuality is bunk.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Then, &lt;em&gt;New York Times&lt;/em&gt; magazine featured an &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/25/magazine/25desire-t.html?pagewanted=all&quot;&gt;article&lt;/a&gt; in 2009 detailing the differences in male and female genital arousal when viewing erotic interactions, which implied that it's far easier to for women to swing both ways:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;No matter what their self-proclaimed sexual orientation, they showed, on the whole, strong and swift genital arousal when the screen offered men with men, women with women and women with men.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A pertinent problem with denying the existence of male bisexuality is that it, by extension, denies men the sexual fluidity afforded to women. Yes, female bisexuality is eroticized and objectified in a negative way that derides such sexual behavior as a performance to satisfy the heterosexual male gaze. But society is nevertheless more comfortable with it. For bisexual men, it's another story. We aren't sure what it looks like and how to negotiate it and calmly, rationally accept it as part of the sexual spectrum. So instead, we call them liars? That can't be good for anyone. &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/archives/2011/08/16/9534403-case-closed-bisexual-men-exist&quot;&gt;Dan Savage has offered&lt;/a&gt; personal anecedotal evidence of (usually) younger men who claim bisexuality to delay or avoid coming out completely, and &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16817067&quot;&gt;additional academic research&lt;/a&gt; confirms that pattern. But again, extrapolating such evidence to frame male bisexuality as some sort of stop along the way toward Gaytopia, a gateway drug to full-blown phallic addiction, isn't helping us either.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Fortunately, a &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.thestranger.com/images/blogimages/2011/08/16/1313530258-rosenthal_et_al.pdf&quot;&gt;study published this summer&lt;/a&gt; offered an empirical reason to reexamine this mistrust of male bisexuality. A psychology team from Northwestern University tightened the criteria for recruiting bisexual men and found that, lo and behold, the arousal patterns indeed matched their self-identification. The study authors noted &quot;bisexual participants in past studies were partly or exclusively recruited from the gay community,&quot; and did not rely on actual bisexual behavior or relationship, all of which could understandably skew results. Adjusting for those potential pitfalls, the Northwestern psychologists discovered something that sounds a lot like sexual fluidity to me:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;On average, the bisexual men in our sample had distinctly bisexual patterns of both genital and subjective arousal. That is, their arousal responses to their less arousing sex tended to be higher than those of homosexual and heterosexual men.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;What does this bisexuality talk have to do with the beauty/&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://bitchmagazine.org/tag/body-image&quot;&gt;body image&lt;/a&gt; bent of Isn't He Lovely? No, I don't have any findings about what bisexual men see in the mirror and how they internalize and externalize the heteronormative media messages bombarding us all. But sexuality—and the acceptance of one's sexuality, both personally and publicly—eventually traces back to the body. Healthy perspectives on sexuality tend to correlate to healthy physical perspectives as well. Imagine for a moment how you'd feel if people constantly called your sexual identity and biological arousal a fraud. Not too sexy, I'd wager.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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         <description>&lt;br/&gt;&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; id=&quot;&quot; style=&quot;&quot;&gt;#Sex at #OWS&amp;#039; #OccupyWallStreet: “You occupy my heart…. The protest has already inspired at least 1 #marriage proposal&amp;amp;quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;www.salon.com&lt;br/&gt;Alexander is sitting on the edge of Zuccotti Park holding a cardboard sign reading, “Who’s to say a homeless guy can’t take a girl on a date? Donations?” The 19-year-old’s arms are covered in flaky scabs and the bridge of his nose bears a scar, presumably from a fight, but his gutter-punk look is...</description>
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         <description>&lt;p&gt;Alexander is sitting on the edge of Zuccotti Park holding a cardboard sign reading, “Who’s to say a homeless guy can’t take a girl on a date? Donations?” The 19-year-old’s arms are covered in flaky scabs and the bridge of his nose bears a scar, presumably from a fight, but his gutter-punk look is softened by beautiful green eyes and a round, warm face. I sit next to him on the sidewalk, amid the chaos of Occupy Wall Street, and ask whether the wad of dollar bills in his collection cup is really going toward a date. “Definitely,” he smiles. “But my idea of a date is dropping 2C-B” – a psychedelic drug, he explains, when I have to ask – “and going on an adventure around the city.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It’s easy to see how reports of drugs, public sex and other licentiousness could take off at an overnight camp site. But while some on the right have seized on such stories to dismiss the movement as one big public orgy, the truth is that those like Alexander — who boasts of fooling around with “a chick” under a tarp just feet from a police officer — are easy to find but not the norm. Not even among the hardcore protesters who camp out every night.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“Sex doesn’t happen here,” says John, a 22-year-old college graduate from Virginia Beach who has slept in the square for a couple of days now. “There are a lot of people in a very tight space. It’d be really hard to do.” A handful of other protesters in their 20s tell me that they haven’t seen any of the apparently apocryphal &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.salon.com/2011/10/11/the_real_occupy_wall_street_agenda_public_sex_of_course/&quot;&gt;“lawn sex”&lt;/a&gt; or condoms littering the ground. Indeed, Zuccotti Park is by far the cleanest sliver of the city that I’ve seen.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Clearly, there’s a minority that feels more inspired by all the cute activists than by the movement itself — the blog &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.salon.com/2011/10/19/hot_chicks_of_occupy_wall_street_creator_defends_film/singleton/&quot;&gt;Hot Chicks of Occupy Wall Street&lt;/a&gt; is just one obvious manifestation of that. With so many young people with shared passions gathered in a city square, it’s inevitable that sparks would fly. It’s like college all over again — at least for the ones who aren’t still in school, and many are. Missed Connections regularly pop up on Craigslist – most famously, one from a man looking for the “cute anarchist” he was arrested with while protesting on the Brooklyn Bridge. He wrote, “You made fun of my shoes’ tongues falling out because they’d confiscated our shoelaces!” For those of us with parents who joined the antiwar movement in the ’60s, these sound like familiar love stories. The protest has already inspired at least one marriage proposal, in which a man used the human microphone system to &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://storyful.com/stories/1000009933&quot;&gt;pop the question&lt;/a&gt;, “Will you occupy my life?”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Contrary to the pornographic imagery conjured by some conservatives, the movement’s romantic connections are awfully sweet. “I have a crush,” a long-haired 20-year-old named Joshua, who is reading tarot cards for change, told me. When I inquired further, he started to blush and simply put a painted fingernail to his lips to shush me. Spirit, an 18-year-old student sitting by a pile of sleeping punks with face tattoos and mangy pups, said she knew of a couple who met here, fell in love and are now traveling the country together. “You put enough young passionate people together, there will be some love connections,” said Beccah, 25. “If you walk away with your future husband, great. My parents bonded protesting tuition hikes at Boston University.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It isn’t just romantic connections that are being made, though. There are also intense conversations happening between men and women about gender and sex. I joined a powwow of a dozen 20-somethings sitting on scraps of cardboard and discussing things like “white male privilege,” sexual consent and gendered language. We went around the circle introducing ourselves by our name and preferred gender pronoun. “My name’s Jordan, I go by ‘they,’” said one participant. Another “male-bodied” person with orange dreadlocks and purple nail polish also identified as “they” — but the rest of the group stuck with “he” and “she.” When someone said something others agreed with — say, about how sexism and the gender binary perpetuate “our corrupt social system” — they would do a variation of fluttery “jazz hands” instead of clapping.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It would be an understatement to say that those sexualizing the protest, like the guy behind Hot Chicks of Occupy Wall Street, are unpopular among Zuccotti Park campers. One young woman said of the blog’s creator, “I hope he doesn’t ever come back here because we’ve done such a good job so far of being nonviolent” — the none-too-subtle implication being that he would get his ass kicked. Although Beccah from earlier said, “If it takes titties to get people here, who am I to argue?”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Initially, 19-year-old Alexander was drawn to the protest because of the free food and blankets, but the “sexy,” “passionate” young women kept him around — along with make-out sessions in phone booths. Eventually, though, he actually got behind the movement and started writing poetry about the cause. He says, “That’s the only reason I’m still here.”&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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         <description>&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;p&gt;In California, where one in four transgender people earn wages below the poverty level and trans folk of color are up to a third poorer than their white counterparts, two important anti-discrimination bills have become law. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Signed on Monday, the new Gender Nondiscrimination Act (AB 887) carves out a specific category for “gender identity and expression” in the existing law against discrimination at work, school, the doctor’s office, housing, and public spaces. Transgender people were already protected from, say, being fired or evicted for coming out, but according to the San Francisco-based &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://transgenderlawcenter.org/cms/blogs/7-7&quot;&gt;Transgender Law Center&lt;/a&gt;, many didn’t know their rights. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;The Vital Statistics Modernization Act (AB 433), also passed on Monday, eliminates demeaning hoops that transgender people have to jump through to update their birth certificates and get a court-ordered gender change. The Transgender Law Center is one of three organizations that led the push for these changes. Program manager Maceo Persson explains how Cali’s trans folk will benefit.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Let’s start with the AB 433, the ID law. Explain what the obstacles were.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Before the Vital Statistics Modernization Act, people could do a legal gender change but it was a very intimidating, outmoded process instituted in the 1970s. It was almost like getting a legal name change: You’d fill out a form, get a court date and stand before a judge to state why you wanted to do a gender change. But then the judge—not your doctor—would get to decide whether you’d undergone ‘clinically appropriate treatment’ to be your authentic self. AB 433 helps ensure that that decision stays between you and your doctor. Transitioning is a &lt;em&gt;personal and medical&lt;/em&gt; process. AB 433 puts judges out of the business of making medical decisions; now they just verify that you’re undergoing treatment so you can get the ID you need. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How will this impact immigrants, particularly those seeking asylum &lt;em&gt;because&lt;/em&gt; they’re transgender?&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Well, [many] transgender people immigrate to California so they can be their true self. When people come here and apply for asylum, they [usually] have a one-year [review] period. This law allows them to apply for a legal gender change simultaneously. It also streamlines the process overall because it conforms to the same standards that apply to changing your gender on your passport. You’re less likely to end up having a bunch of different standards for establishing your gender, and you’re less likely to deal with the discrimination and harassment you get when you don’t have consistent ID. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Talk about the basic non-discrimination law, AB 887. If transgender people had rights, why did you need to spell it out?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Because gender identification and expression weren’t listed on, say, the worker protection posters you see in the kitchen at your job, or in the equal opportunity clause of your lease agreement, people didn’t understand that they’re weren’t allowed to discriminate. We kept getting calls from trans and gender nonconforming people who had looked at their workplace posters or the nondiscrimination notices at their school and were confused about whether they were protected. They literally didn’t know that they had rights. This law makes it clear that the discrimination they might experience in the workplace, the community health clinic, at school is illegal. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;And how does race factor in?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;In our&lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.transgenderlawcenter.org/pdf/StateTransCA_report_2009Print.pdf&quot;&gt; research&lt;/a&gt; we’ve found that a lot of trans people face some kind of discrimination in their everyday lives. The rates of discrimination almost correlate directly to income level and education attainment. Because of systemic racial oppression, trans folks of color are likely to have fewer employment opportunities, lower education levels and have less income. It’s almost like they’re caught in a cycle of discrimination. This law will [interrupt] that cycle. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;For information about the connection between race and gender discrimination on a national level, click &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://colorlines.com/archives/2011/02/transgender_discrimination_study.html&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;

        
        
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                &lt;p&gt;WITH a click and a whirr, I am pulled into the scanner. My head is strapped down and I have been draped with a blanket so that I may touch my nether regions - my clitoris in particular - with a certain degree of modesty. I am here neither for a medical procedure nor an adult movie. Rather, I am about to stimulate myself to orgasm while an fMRI scanner tracks the blood flow in my brain.&lt;/p&gt;
            
        
        
		

	
    	
        
            
                &lt;p&gt;My actions are helping &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://psychology.rutgers.edu/~brk/&quot;&gt;Barry Komisaruk&lt;/a&gt; at Rutgers University in Newark, New Jersey, and colleagues to tease apart the mechanisms underlying sexual arousal. In doing so, not only have they discovered that there is more than one route to orgasm, but they may also have revealed a novel type of consciousness - an understanding of which could lead to new treatments for pain (see &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg21028124.600-sex-on-the-brain-orgasms-unlock-altered-consciousness.html?full=true#bx281246B2&quot;&gt;Top-down pain relief&lt;/a&gt;).&lt;/p&gt;
            
            
        
        
		

	
    	
        
            
            
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&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;p&gt;In my work as a sex researcher and educator at Indiana University and The Kinsey Institute–as well as a sex columnist—I field such questions all the time. Most recently, a 28-year-old wrote to ask me whether he should break up with his girlfriend after he read an online poll that put a woman’s average number of sex partners at four (and his girlfriend’s number was nine). Although the man himself had slept with seven women, he had embraced what we scientists call the &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.jstor.org/pss/3813720&quot;&gt;“sexual double standard.”&lt;/a&gt; Among the features of this cultural ball and chain is that men get rewarded for playing the field whereas women get labeled as sluts. (How dare we explore our sexuality? Back to the kitchen, ladies!) To me, this is an intriguing aspect of &lt;i&gt;What’s Your Number&lt;/i&gt;?—that movies like &lt;i&gt;High Fidelity&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;Broken Flowers&lt;/i&gt;, in which men revisit their exes, are about soul-searching with no hint of the “how many is too many?” question. And yet a movie that highlights a woman retracing her ex-steps involves the central question of her “number.”&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;&lt;p&gt;And although I pay some attention to numbers in my professional life (after all, my job as a research scientist has me looking for patterns in people’s sex lives), I tend to encourage my students and readers not to get too hung up on their own or others’ &quot;numbers.&quot; A person’s sexual history is only one aspect of who they are as a person, or a potential partner—and there’s more to their number than meets the eye. Consider these five surprising facts about what your number does—and doesn’t—mean:&lt;b&gt; &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;1. It’s not exactly a slippery slope.&lt;/b&gt; Sure, men and women today have had more sex partners, on average, than people did 100 years ago. But we also live much longer and our numbers aren’t getting exponentially bigger. There have always been some people who had far more sex partners than others (historically, Casanova; today, Tiger Woods). And there have always been those who have remained celibate or had only one lifelong sexual partner. In between, there’s a lot of variability. These days, &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://gaydata.org/Data_Sources/ds005_NSFG_Results_2002.pdf&quot;&gt;some research&lt;/a&gt; puts women’s median number of partners at around four and men’s median partners at around seven. The important thing to know is that these numbers are medians—meaning that half of people have had fewer partners and half of people have had more partners. You’re in good company on either side of the median.&lt;b&gt; &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;2. Men and women guesstimate sex partners differently.&lt;/b&gt; Women tend to report &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://psycnet.apa.org/psycinfo/1994-01547-001&quot;&gt;lower numbers&lt;/a&gt; of sex partners than men, which, even accounting for same-sex couplings, makes no mathematical sense. One possible explanation is that women tend to tone down their sex numbers and men tend to exaggerate theirs—or at least to count more people as “sex partners” than women do. &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.ualberta.ca/%7Enrbrown/pubs/BrownSinclair1999.pdf&quot;&gt;Other research&lt;/a&gt; shows that men and women estimate sex partners differently; that is, men tend to give rough guesses and women tend to tally their partners, listing them mentally by name, arriving perhaps at a more precise (and often lower) number.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;div&gt;&lt;p&gt;3. &lt;b&gt;We don’t agree on what it means to have “sex” in the first place.&lt;/b&gt; There’s another reason it’s difficult to get a straight answer about someone’s number: people count different things as sex. In a &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://jama.ama-assn.org/content/281/3/275.short&quot;&gt;now-classic study&lt;/a&gt; published in the &lt;i&gt;Journal of the American Medical Association&lt;/i&gt;, my colleagues at The Kinsey Institute asked men and women what they considered to be “sex.” Though vaginal intercourse was widely considered to be “sex,” 59 percent didn’t consider oral sex to be sex and about one in five didn’t view anal sex as “sex.” If you ask someone how many sex partners they had, then, you have no idea whether they’re counting all their oral, anal, and vaginal sex partners—or just one certain type of partner.&lt;b&gt; &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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        &lt;p&gt;Women tend to tone down their sex numbers and men tend to exaggerate theirs–or at least to count more people as &quot;sex partners&quot; than women do.&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;div style=&quot;display:block;&quot;&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;display:block;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;4. Biology might have something to do with it.&lt;/b&gt; In &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/science-environment-15002277&quot;&gt;one study&lt;/a&gt;, researchers found that inbreeding may result in female flour beetles who are more open to mating with multiple males (and you don’t see flour beetles stressing about their numbers, do you?). In &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://homepages.indiana.edu/web/page/normal/19433.html&quot;&gt;another study&lt;/a&gt;, biologists at Indiana University demonstrated that there may be advantages for junco birds who “sleep around” (nest around?) with males other than their pair-bonded partner. Chief among these: the non-monogamous birdies wind up with more grand-birds (a sign of reproductive success). Biology doesn’t only influence birds and beetles, however; in a &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.twin-research.ac.uk/Publicatons/2004/Cherkas.Twin.pdf&quot;&gt;study&lt;/a&gt; of more than 1,600 female (and human) twin pairs, British researchers found a moderate genetic influence related to the number of women’s sex partners.&lt;b&gt; &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;div style=&quot;display:block;&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;5. You can’t tell if a person has an STI based on their little black book. &lt;/b&gt;It’s true that the more sex partners you have, the greater the chance you have of acquiring a sexually transmissible infection (STI)—especially common and incurable ones like the human papillomavirus (HPV) and herpes. That said, having multiple partners doesn’t necessarily mean you will get an STI—and having only one partner doesn’t mean that you won’t. I’ve met women and men who have had only one partner and yet still wound up with herpes, chlamydia, or HIV. I’ve also met people who have had a dozen partners and never wound up with an infection, to their knowledge. If you’re sexually active—whether with one person or a handful, or roomful—you should talk to your health-care provider about STI testing.&lt;/p&gt;
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         <description>&lt;p&gt;Today the GOP-led House of Representatives, with the blessings and encouragement of the United States Council of Catholic Bishops and extremist religious groups such as the Family Research Council, &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.govtrack.us/congress/vote.xpd?vote=h2011-786&quot;&gt;passed a bill in a vote of 251 to 172 that would&lt;/a&gt;, among other things, allow doctors and hospitals to &quot;exercise their conscience&quot; by letting pregnant women facing emergency medical conditions die.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Yes. Die.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This is what the Republicans called the &quot;Protect Life Act.&quot;  And no, I am not kidding.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi called it what it is... &quot;a savage assault on women's health.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Fifteen Democrats voted for what women's groups are calling the &quot;Let Women Die&quot; Act.  These include anti-choice Congress&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;men&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; Jason Altmire (PA), Sanford Bishop (GA), Dan Boren (OK), Jerry Costello (IL), Mark Critz (PA), Henry Cuellar (TX), Joe Donnelly (IN), Tim Holden (PA), Dan Lipinski (IL), Jim Matheson (UT), Mike McIntyre (NC), Nick Rahall (WVA), Mike Ross (AR), Collin Petersen (MN), and Heath Shuler (D-NC).&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;Extremists prevailed today in the House of Representatives,&quot; said Debra Ness of the National Partnership for Women and Families, &quot;proving  again that they are badly out-of-touch with the majority of Americans  who want lawmakers to focus on economic recovery, jobs and promoting,  rather than restricting, affordable, quality health care ­-- not [on] an  extreme, anti-woman agenda.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Nancy  Keenan, president of NARAL Pro-Choice America, called passage  of the bill yet another  reminder of how playing politics with women’s health and privacy is a priority for Speaker John Boehner.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;“Americans are facing real  challenges, yet House Speaker John Boehner is ignoring the public’s call  for Congress to focus on jobs, “said Keenan. “Instead, he is coming up  with new ways to give politicians more control over our personal, private decisions. The House’s attacks on women’s freedom  and privacy are out of touch with our nation’s values and priorities.”&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The bill, H.R. 358, about which we &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/article/2011/10/12/death-by-denial-house-launches-new-assault-on-womens-lives&quot;&gt;have written extensively&lt;/a&gt;,  revives the earlier failed Stupak amendment, which would force health  plans to drop comprehensive coverage in state   health insurance  exchanges, cutting off millions of women from the   benefits they  receive today and prevent women from paying for health insurance with  abortion coverage &lt;em&gt;with their own money&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;H.R. 358 contains other provisions revealing complete disregard for women's health and lives. It permits states to enact sweeping  refusal laws that would   allow   health plans to refuse to cover  women’s preventive services,    including  birth control, without  cost-sharing — undoing a new    protection under health reform supported  by 66  percent of Americans.  It also codifies and significantly expands an &lt;em&gt;already    expansive &lt;/em&gt;refusal  clause (also known as the Weldon amendment) without    any regard for  patient rights or protections. Under current law (through the 2004  Weldon amendment), hospitals,    health care facilities, and insurance  plans can refuse to provide, pay    for, provide coverage of, or refer  for abortions.  The Weldon   amendment  has no protections for patients  to ensure they have access to   care and  information in a timely  manner.  H.R. 358 codifies this   unfair and  discriminatory provision.  H.R. 358 further allows health care entities--hospitals,  clinics--to   refuse  to &quot;participate in&quot; abortion care.  This could  mean that a   hospital  employee with no medical training or role in a  patient’s   treatment  decisions could refuse to process bills, handle  medical   records, or even  set up an examination room for a patient  seeking abortion care.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And finally, it overrides protections for pregnant women under the Emergency Medical Treatment and Active Labor Act.  &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;https://www.cms.gov/emtala/&quot;&gt;EMTALA was enacted in 1986&lt;/a&gt; to ensure public access to emergency services regardless of  ability to pay, including women in active labor. Under EMTALA, hospitals must stabilize a pregnant patient who, for example, is facing an emergency obstetric condition or life-threatening pregnancy and either treat her--including an emergency abortion--or if the hospital or staff objects, to transfer her to another facility that will treat her. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;H.R. 358 overturns decades of precedent guaranteeing people access   to lifesaving emergency care, including abortion care and says its ok that a pregnant woman fighting for her life be left to die. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Read it again.  It is that breathtaking.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As Representative Jackie Speier (D-CA) stated during floor debate, had this law been in effect 20 years ago she might not be here, because she was one of those women who needed an emergency abortion to save her life. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But the real lives of real women don't seem to be of great concern to the predominantly white male Congress.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“This bill is a collection of dangerous ideas that will   undermine women’s health,” said Cecile Richards, president of Planned Parenthood Federation of America.    “Most devastating, the bill eliminates protections for patients seeking   care in emergency circumstances, and would allow a hospital to deny   lifesaving abortion care to a woman, even if a doctor deems it   necessary.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;President Obama has said he would veto the bill if it were to reach his  desk. &quot;The Administration strongly opposes H.R. 358,&quot; said &lt;a rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.whitehouse.gov/sites/default/files/omb/legislative/sap/112/saphr358r_20111012.pdf&quot;&gt;the statement  of policy&lt;/a&gt; put out by the White House, &quot;because, as previously stated in  the Statement of Administration Policy on H.R. 3, the legislation  intrudes on women's reproductive freedom and access to health care and  unnecessarily restricts the private insurance choices that women and  their families have today.&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;America’s women and families are counting  on the Senate to reject this measure,&quot; said Ness of the National Partnership, &quot;and, if necessary, for President  Obama to make good on his promise to veto it.”&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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